I recently read a very interesting concept about a human library in Denmark. Instead of lending books, the organisation uses a library analogy to lend people one can have conversations with, people with diverse and interesting backgrounds.

We all have our stories and experiences to share. Not only do we influence the lives of others by opening up our life, we too change as we learn much about ourselves when we recount our own experiences. Our stories, no matter how small or ordinary they may seem to us, are powerful.

Stories inspire others. When we share our challenges, what we went through, and how we overcome difficult situations, we instill a sense of confidence in others to face their own struggles with hope. When we share our successes and what it took to achieve them, we leave others inspired to rededicate their efforts to achieve greater things for themselves.

Stories resonate. We may not realise it, but others may be going through a very similar type of challenge as us without showing it. When they hear us being open about our situation, they realise that they are not alone. Our approach can help them deal with their situation and relook at their own approach.

Stories give courage. When we find courage to talk about our own vulnerabilities with ease, it helps others open up and find the inner strength to share and deal with their own vulnerabilities. How we overcame adversity can become a source of courage for someone facing tough choices and situations.

Stories give perspective. Hidden in our sharing could well be a perspective or answer someone is looking for. I remember sitting with a Korean friend in the same business, and over a casual conversation he mentioned to me – ‘Vivek, power lies in the brand.’ That one statement and the story of his company gave me the much needed answer I had been looking for in the early days of my career.

Each one of us is a human library. No matter how simple and small we feel our stories are, we must find it in ourselves to share our life with others, not to brag about our achievements, or crib about our problems, but to share our experiences and learnings. Our small story may have a big message for someone.

Our life itself is our story. We must be careful how we live our life, we may be the only book someone reads.

(Picture-Library in my alma mater, Campion School)