Not Because Of, But In Spite Of

May 4, 2021 | awareness | 4 comments

There are times things go our way and the going seems easy. But our true test of character is navigating through life, not because of, but in spite of challenging circumstances.

In spite of pressure and expectations when we stand by our principles and refuse to compromise our ethics, we create value for ourselves and generations to come.

In spite of temptations when we are firm in our resolve and find the strength of discretion and self-control, we shape ourselves and our future.

In spite of making several mistakes and having setbacks, when we don’t lose our spirit and keep trying harder with every fall, we grow stronger and soon reach our goal.

In spite of having to struggle at every milestone while others seemingly have it easier, when we don’t become bitter but accept our struggle as a challenge and a blessing to grow, we build gratitude and fortitude which helps us face the toughest situations in life.

In spite of having little when we live with abundance and share with others, we build a reservoir of joy within that nourishes our spirit when the going gets really tough.

In spite of our busy schedules when we find time for others who need our help, we build enduring relationships that become our true wealth.

In spite of destruction when we invoke our ability to find creative solutions, we turn a crisis to our advantage and start looking for the hidden opportunity in every problem.

In spite of facing potential losses when we don’t lose our faith and balance, we discover the inner strength and endurance to sail through life with equanimity.

In spite of prosperity when we don’t let go of our discipline to prepare for a rainy day, we find ourselves able to manage chaos with relative calm.

Life changes in the blink of an eye. Today’s stability could become tomorrow’s struggle. Even though we may really struggle through situations, when we look back and reflect on life, our most cherished memories will be when we succeeded, not because of, but in spite of.

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  1. Exceptional fabric of a message woven expertly by a master craftsman.

    🙏 Vivek

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  2. Thought provoking article. One has to be truly magnanimous to prove “Not because of but Inspite of”. Great learning

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  3. Superb

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  4. Thinking of India at this very Challenging time.
    Praying that in the “face the toughest situations in life” India will pull through with its resilience and strength.
    Mohan, Melbourne.

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