In essence we are all the same. And yet the world finds itself a divided place – politically, socially and economically. If there is one need, it is to bridge the divides in the world. It doesn’t mean everyone has to agree to everything or that we all have to subscribe to a uniform way of thinking. On the contrary. Diverse points of view bring out the best in us. It only means we need to learn to differ without being divided.

We need to learn to listen to the other. Getting louder only drowns a discussion and before we know, we start focussing on the noise rather than the issues.

We need to start with respect for the other, no matter how far we may be in our thinking. When we drop respect, we operate from our ego, anger and hatred. And even when the other is making a valid point, we refuse to accept it because we have rejected the person.

We need to realise that convictions build collaborations. When others see our true conviction and ability to go through pain, pressure and challenge while standing by our principles, they come closer in their willingness to work together.

We need to be honest. The power and simplicity in not stating something that is false is often underestimated. The strongest bridges stand on the pillars of trust.

And this role of bridging divides is not the role of a few in society, nor do we only need to address divides at the national and international level. This is a role each one of us has to learn to play. Because there could be divides in our own families, localities, communities and organisations.

A bridge cannot be built with a single pillar on one side, no matter how strong. It rests on pillars on both sides. We cannot bridge divides till we don’t understand this principle – that we need the other to partner us. The moment we look at an adversary as a potential and necessary partner our approach changes.

But divides don’t just exist out there. They exist with us as well. And we will be effective in reaching out to others when we have bridged our divide within.

(Picture-near Keswick, Lake District in England)