Life is full of uncertainty and unpredictability. The constant churn around us puts demands on us to respond to our changing world. 

But this doesn’t mean that we ourselves need to be unpredictable. On the contrary. It is our own predictability that allows us to face up to the challenges of situations and relationships.

Predictability comes from adhering to and being committed to our value system. When we operate not from our moods and fancies but from our inner guidance system within, there is a rhythm of consistency and predictably in our actions. 

Our predictably comes from our authenticity. When we are true to what we believe and find the conviction to be anchored in that in our daily interactions, people around know what to expect. They may disagree but will not doubt us. And authenticity builds trust.

In a relationship, we prefer to know what to expect. It is the inconsistencies that confuse and agitate is. Predictability brings stability to a relationship. 

Predictability builds dependability. People know how much they can rely on us. It removes unreal expectations in our interactions.

We must of course be mindful that undesirable habits and behaviour doesn’t get justified just because we are predictable in displaying them !

Life is unpredictable. We need not be.